i don't need people to gossip behind me, to remind me or make a fuss out of those flaws. i know it & i'm doing something about it. just that sometimes i really don't know how i can improve on them. if it affects you, it affects me x2.
when i was young, someone once told me "close friends don't gossip behind your back. if they do, then they are not. finding close friends is just like looking for a pearl in the oyster bed."
thankfully i have a few closer ones who are worthy. its not that they don't see my flaws, its that they don't mind. they are those who would brush aside minor details and magnify the positive qualities/things (:
the ones closest to you are those that appreciate you for who you are (: